Have you been feeling 'off' lately? For example, you aren't feeling like yourself, but you're not exactly sure what's wrong. Do you find yourself feeling irritable, anxious, or on high-alert almost all the time? In moments of interacting with others, do you find yourself reacting in anger but unsure why? What you're feeling may be due to the unpredictable times we're living in, but could there be more going on? Is it possible you're living with unresolved trauma?
Thanks to a year of stressful changes and unpredictability brought on by COVID-19, and many social issues, life for most of us no longer looks the same. As a result, you may be walking around in a state of overwhelm and not realize it. Or, maybe you do. It could be due to the troubling times we're living in. However, there could be more going on. Unresolved trauma could be at the root of your negative emotions and feelings. But what does that mean, and what can you do about it?
In this article, we'll talk about trauma. We'll discuss what the symptoms of unresolved trauma may look like. Finally, we'll provide 5 ideas to help you cope with the difficult emotions you're living with, even if it is trauma.
Simply put, trauma is a deeply disturbing or distressing experience. Likewise, there are many circumstances and situations that can be traumatic. It's important to note, two people could experience the same event, and one may be traumatized while the other is not. As a result, trauma experiences are very personal and unique; there is not an exact way to define what will cause trauma. Likewise, there is not a specific way people react to traumatic events.
There are many ways trauma can occur. Examples of events or situations include:
natural disasters
chronic health issues or sudden terminal illness
car accidents
neglect and abuse
divorce
discovering an addiction or infidelity
losing a loved one
witnessing violence or death
There are many events of 2020 that could have been traumatic to you. Likewise, you may have an experience in your past that you can't quite identify but feel some heaviness set in when you think about it. On the contrary, there may be an event with your spouse that felt traumatic to you, but you didn't know how to react, so you pushed your emotions aside. Although the experiences with trauma can vary, there are symptoms of trauma you may recognize.
A common result of trauma is post-traumatic stress disorder. There are many PTSD symptoms you may experience. For example:
Other symptoms can include:
If you recognize your reactions don't match the situation, you may be living with unresolved trauma. For example, do you respond with anger but then wonder why you're so angry? Do you feel like many of your reactions are bigger than you'd like them to be? Although you may not realize it, you may be subconsciously reacting to memories your body has locked away inside.
If the symptoms you're experiencing seem to align with the list above, you may be living with unresolved trauma. Keep in mind, it has been a very stressful year, and many are feeling the weight of stress and overwhelm. However, if you are experiencing symptoms day after day, it may be worth checking in to.
In the meantime, let's highlight 5 ideas that may help you cope with unresolved trauma.
At Thrive Counseling Atlanta, we recognize there are many challenges you may be facing right now that may lead to trauma. Likewise, we see the reality of the impact this can have on your physical and mental health. We would love to talk to you about how you're feeling and see how we can support you. Call us today.
Have you been feeling off lately? You aren't feeling like yourself, but you're not sure what's wrong. Do you find yourself feeling irritable, overwhelmed, anxious, or on high-alert? In moments of interacting with others, are you quick to react in anger? Is it possible you're living with unresolved trauma? Learn how you may be able to heal from trauma
If you have or are experiencing any of the following, you may have unresolved trauma:
Yes, it is possible with the right professional help. At Thrive Counseling Atlanta, we recognize there are many challenges you may be facing right now that may lead to trauma. Likewise, we see the reality of the impact this can have on your physical and mental health. We would love to talk to you about how you're feeling and see how we can support you. Call us today.
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